I did not ask my mother to give birth after 40. It was her conscious decision. And I’m not ready to be a permanent nanny to my sister. Now, instead of dating a guy, I stay with the baby. And I don’t really want to come to him on a date with a stroller.
Mom says that she cannot help but go to work – she needs money. Daddy’s finances were not enough. And I’m already suggesting that I go out to help the family financially. This alignment does not suit anyone, because I “need to study” and my money will not be enough if I find a part-time job.
What to do? I’m not ready to be a mother to my sister. I understand that this sounds selfish, but she did not give birth for me. It seems that only I think so in our family …