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Vacation Interrupted by an Unexpected Family Visit
“Enough with this ocean talk already!” Egor snapped, tossing the TV remote onto the couch. “Inna and her family are arriving tomorrow, and there’s no way we’re going anywhere!”

The words hit the living room like a cold shower. Vera froze in place, the travel brochure featuring turquoise sea images trembling in her hands.

What do you mean, ‘enough’?

Slowly, she lowered the brochure onto the coffee table. Egor slumped into an armchair, flicking through channels, his face illuminated by the screen but distant and indifferent.

“What did you say?” Her voice was soft but carried an ominous tone.

“I said exactly what I meant. Inna’s coming with Andrey and the kids. For a whole month. So forget about your sea trip and stop pestering me.”

One month. The word hung heavily in the air, pressing down like a tight knot inside Vera’s chest.

“Egor, we planned this vacation since winter. I already bought the tickets and paid for everything,” she spoke slowly, as if explaining to a child. “I’ve been waiting for this for a whole year…”

“I said — forget it!” He slammed his palm on the table. “Family is more important than your whims!”

Whims? Vera felt warmth rising to her cheeks. Those sleepless nights with a calculator, counting every kopek. Declining a new jacket to save for the trip. Dreams of the sea breeze, imagined each morning on the way to work.

“What whims, Egor?” She stepped closer, determination evident in her movement. “I work tirelessly both at home and at my job. When was the last time I rested?”

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“Don’t start your whining.” He turned up the volume, switching channels. “Inna is my sister. She rarely visits. End of discussion.”

Rarely? Vera scoffed silently. Inna showed up every summer like a relentless force, bringing her three kids and her husband Andrey — a man with a ravenous appetite. And every time, Vera turned into their personal assistant.

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Neglecting her own needs and desires
“Listen, Egor,” Vera sat on the edge of the sofa across from him. “I get that family matters. But I’m a person too. I have wants and needs…”

“Wants?” He gave her a mocking look. “Like lying on a beach? Swimming in the sea? What, you’re some kind of chicken?”

Chicken? She stared at the man she’d shared fifteen years with. When did he become so cold? When did his eyes turn this way?

“Yes, I want the sea,” she stood up. “I want to wake up to the sound of waves, walk barefoot on sand. I want to be simply Vera — not a cook, maid, and nanny for other people’s kids.”

“Others’ kids?” Egor jumped up. “They’re my sister’s children!”

“Who mess up the house on day one!” Vera lost control. “Who yell, break things, demand! And Inna will lounge on the couch complaining about life!”

“How dare you! Inna is a wonderful mother!” Egor’s face darkened.

“A wonderful mother doesn’t raise monsters!” Words tumbled like stones falling off a cliff. “Remember what they did last year? Broke grandma’s vase, colored the walls with markers, and the youngest practically burned the kitchen down!”

“Kids will be kids…”

“And what about me? Am I not a person?” Vera’s angry fire surged. “Must I endure this nightmare just because they’re ‘kids’?”

Egor looked at her in surprise, as if seeing this fiery wife for the first time.

“Inna arrives tomorrow,” he said quietly. “That’s final.”

“Then you greet them yourself.” Vera headed toward the door.

“Where are you going?”

“To the bedroom,” she said over her shoulder. “To think.”

Think about how to live with someone oblivious to her beyond household duties.

The bedroom door slammed shut, and a heavy silence filled the house — silent, tense, the calm before the storm.

Vera lay on the bed, staring at the ceiling, still clutching the crumpled travel brochure. The sea — she had imagined this vacation so vividly. Morning walks along the shore, salty air, freedom from endless chores. But now, instead of that, she faced a month playing servant to spoiled children and indifferent parents.

What can I do?

She fell asleep holding onto the shattered remnants of her dream.

Outside, the trees rustled, sounding like distant ocean waves— the waves Vera would not hear this summer.

Or maybe she would?

Arrival and Chaos Unleashed
Morning greeted Vera with gray rain and the rumble of an arriving car. At the bedroom window, coffee in hand, she watched a familiar group clambering from a black jeep.

Inna was the first to rush out — a tall bleach blonde wearing a bright pink tracksuit. From a distance, she was already waving her arms, yelling at her husband.

“Andrey, be careful with the suitcase! Those are my new shoes!” a shrill voice flew up.

Andrey, a stocky man with a receding hairline, silently hauled bags from the trunk, lips firmly sealed as if resigned to his fate.

The children… Vera grimaced involuntarily. Ten-year-old Maxim had already stepped in a puddle and was splashing mud everywhere. Seven-year-old Sonya screamed about a forgotten doll in the car. Four-year-old Dima wailed without reason, just because he could.

“Vera!” Egor shouted from the hallway. “They’re here! Come down!”

They’re here. As if she hadn’t seen or heard this nightmare for the past five minutes.

Finishing her coffee, Vera descended slowly. The hallway was a mess. Inna hugged Egor, leaving pink lipstick marks on his shirt, the kids dashed about, and Andrey futilely tried to shake mud from shoes.

“Verochka!” Inna rushed to her with open arms. “How are you, dear? You’ve lost weight! Been sick?”

The scent of cloying perfume mixed with cigarettes came off Inna. Vera barely restrained herself from stepping back.

“Hello, Inna. How was the trip?”

“Terrible!” Inna rolled her eyes. “The kids were cranky, Andrey got lost three times, and I almost died from the heat. Where’s the air conditioner? You have one, right?”

“Yes,” Vera responded curtly. “In the bedroom.”

“And in the living room? We’ll be sleeping there. Andrey snores, you know. I need a cool place.”

Of course you do. Vera glanced at Egor, who avoided her eyes while fussing with luggage.

“Mom, where’s the bathroom?” Maxim tugged Inna’s hand urgently.

“There,” Vera nodded toward the corridor.

Maxim sprinted off, leaving muddy footprints behind. Meanwhile, Sonya discovered Vera’s favorite crystal candle holder, studying it curiously.

“Sonya, put it back,” Vera asked.

“What is this? Can I play with it?” the girl continued to turn it over in her hands.

“No, it’s fragile.”

“But I’m careful!”

“Sonya,” Andrey interjected, “listen to Aunt Vera.”

“She’s not my aunt!” the child snapped. “We’re not related!”

The room fell into awkward silence. Inna forced a strained laugh.

“Kids say what’s on their minds! Don’t pay attention, Vera.”

Unfiltered, Vera took the candle holder from Sonya, placing it out of reach. The girl pouted and wandered off in search of other amusement.

“Mom, what’s this?” Maxim returned from the bathroom, pointing at a hole in the wall where a nail once held a picture.

Everyone turned. Indeed, a small opening gaped in the wall.

“That’s…” Vera hesitated. “We wanted to hang a new painting.”

“Can I stick my finger in?” Maxim reached toward the hole.

“No!” Vera grabbed his arm. “It’s dangerous.”

“Why dangerous?” Maxim pulled away. “Let go!”

“Maxim,” Andrey said wearily, “stop bothering Aunt Vera.”

“She’s not my aunt!” the kids yelled in unison.

Dima, previously quiet, suddenly burst into a loud cry, filling the hallway with his wailing.

“What’s wrong, little one?” Inna scooped him up. “What hurts?”

“I want to go home!” Dima sobbed. “I want grandma!”

“We’re guests here,” Inna tried to soothe. “At Uncle Egor’s and Aunt Vera’s. Remember? I told you.”

“No!” Dima buried his face in her shoulder. “It’s scary here!”

Scary. Vera surveyed the scene. Their cozy hallway transformed into a chaotic battlefield. Muddy footprints scattered, belongings strewn, a crying child…

“Maybe the kids are just tired from the trip?” Vera suggested. “Want a snack?”

“Oh yes!” Inna brightened. “We’re starving! What do you have?”

What do I have? Vera mentally scanned the fridge contents — just enough food for two, clearly insufficient for a family of five.

“I… can make something,” she muttered.

“Great!” Inna darted to the living room. “We’ll get settled. Andrey, carry the things. Kids, don’t touch anything!”

The last command was purely rhetorical. Maxim had already explored the bookshelves, Sonya found the TV remote and turned the volume to maximum on some cartoon, while Dima smeared snot across the couch.

Vera stood amidst the chaos, feeling a gradual, uncontrollable heat rising within her. She glanced at Egor — busy with the suitcases, lively and content.

One month. A whole month of this nightmare.

“Vera, do you have baby food?” Inna shouted from the living room. “Dima eats only special cereals!”

“No,” Vera answered. “I don’t have any baby food.”

“Then go to the store,” Inna stated matter-of-factly. “I’ll make a list.”

Go to the store. Vera felt something inside snap quietly but irreversibly.

“Yes,” she said calmly. “Of course. Make a list.”

Then she went to the kitchen to prepare breakfast for the five unexpected guests.

Three Days of Endless Chaos
The following three days dragged on eternally for Vera. The home turned into a makeshift day-care for troublesome children. Maxim broke two plates and somehow shoved a sock into the toilet. Sonya scrawled markers all over the hallway wallpaper; when Vera tried to stop her, the child threw a tantrum. Dima wet the bed every night; Vera washed linens like a hospital laundress.

Inna lounged on the couch flipping through magazines, occasionally shouting, “Children, be quieter! Aunt Vera is nervous!”

Andrey silently smoked on the balcony, fleeing the family chaos. Meanwhile, Egor acted like a child himself, playing soccer with the nephews in the yard and sitting late into the night reminiscing with his sister.

“Work is important, but rest is even more so. Some people tend to forget that,” the elderly neighbor had once remarked.

On the fourth morning, Vera was in the kitchen flipping pancakes for the insatiable kids when the phone rang.

“Hello?” she answered wearily.

“Vera Nikolaevna?” an unfamiliar female voice spoke. “This is the Southern Breeze travel agency. I have news for you.”

“I’m listening,” Vera stirred the batter mechanically.

“There was a mix-up with your Sochi hotel reservation. We had to upgrade you to a higher-class hotel. Also, a spot became available for today. If you can leave today, no extra cost will apply.”

Vera froze, whisk in hand.

“Today?”

“Yes, the train departs at 16:40. I understand it’s sudden, but if you don’t take it, the spot will be lost and your money won’t be refunded. It’s a force majeure.”

In the living room, a loud crash echoed, followed by Sonya’s scream and Inna’s voice yelling for Andrey.

Vera glanced at the clock — half past ten.

“I…” she hesitated.

“Vera Nikolaevna, are you there?”

“Yes, I’m here,” she breathed in deeply. “I’m going. Send my tickets by email.”

“Excellent! Sending now. Have a wonderful trip!”

Vera slowly hung up, hands trembling. Today. I can leave today.

“Aunt Vera!” Maxim burst into the kitchen. “Are the pancakes ready? We’re very hungry!”

“Almost,” Vera replied absentmindedly. “Go tell everyone breakfast is in five minutes.”

The boy dashed away. Vera finished the last pancake, turned off the stove, and quietly went to the bedroom.

The suitcase remained unopened in the closet after yesterday’s quarrel. Vera took it out and began packing — swimsuits, summer dresses, sandals — everything she’d lovingly gathered one week earlier.

“Vera!” Inna’s voice rose upstairs. “Where’s breakfast? The kids are starving!”

“Pancakes are on the stove!” Vera called. “Serve yourselves!”

“What do you mean ‘serve yourselves’?” Inna ascended the stairs. “You’re the hostess!”

She entered the bedroom and spotted the suitcase.

“What are you doing?”

“Packing.”

“Where to?” Inna frowned. “We just arrived!”

“I’m leaving,” Vera said calmly, folding sunglasses into the suitcase. “To the sea.”

“What do you mean, to the sea? Egor said you canceled the trip.”

“Egor canceled. I didn’t.”

“But you can’t! What about us? Who will cook? Clean? Watch the kids?”

Vera faced her. In her eyes was something that made Inna back off.

“Andrey can cook, you can clean, and their parents should watch the children.”

“But…” Inna waved her hands helplessly. “We’re guests! Being hospitable matters!”

“You know what’s not hospitable?” Vera closed the suitcase. “Showing up for a month with no notice, turning the house into a mess in three days, treating me like staff.”

“Egor!” Inna screeched. “Egor, come here! Your wife’s lost it!”

Egor burst into the bedroom, red-faced from climbing the stairs.

“What’s happening?”

“Your wife’s leaving us to go to the sea!” Inna jabbed at the suitcase. “Talk to her!”

Egor gazed at the suitcase, then at Vera.

“What are you doing?”

“Going to the sea.” Vera picked up the suitcase, heading to the door. “As planned.”

“Stop!” Egor blocked her path. “You can’t just leave!”

“I can.” She met his eyes. “And that’s exactly what I’ll do.”

“And what about family? Inna, the kids…”

“Inna is your family. The kids are your family.” Vera bypassed him. “Enjoy them yourself.”

“Vera!” Egor chased after her. “This is foolish! Immature! You’re acting like a child!”

Vera stopped at the doorstep.

“You know what’s immature?” She turned toward him. “Ruining others’ plans without asking. Expecting your wife to serve your relatives. Ignoring her needs.”

“But where will you go?” Inna followed downstairs. “You have no tickets!”

“I do.” Vera displayed the electronic ticket on her phone. “Train at 16:40.”

“You have? When?” Egor’s eyes widened.

“An hour ago.” Vera donned her jacket. “The travel agency rescheduled. Fortunate coincidence.”

“Mom!” Maxim ran into the hallway. “When’s breakfast?”

“Ask your dad,” Vera said. “Or Uncle Egor.”

“Vera, don’t be foolish!” Egor grabbed her hand. “Stay! We’ll talk!”

“There’s nothing to talk about.” Vera pulled away. “I’ve been talking for fifteen years. Now I’m acting.”

She opened the door. On the landing stood Mikhail Ivanovich, the elderly neighbor who sometimes helped with repairs.

“Good afternoon, Vera!” He smiled. “Going somewhere with that suitcase?”

“To the sea, Mikhail Ivanovich.” Vera smiled for the first time in four days. “Finally, to the sea.”

“Good for you!” The old man nodded. “Work is important, but rest is even more so. Some tend to forget.”

He glanced meaningfully at Egor.

“Mikhail Ivanovich,” Vera said suddenly, “would you like to earn some money? Watch the children for a few days?”

“What children?” The old man peered into the hallway, seeing the noisy bunch. “Oh… Will you pay?”

“Egor will pay.” Vera glanced at her husband.

Egor opened his mouth but said nothing.

“Then it’s settled!” Mikhail Ivanovich rubbed his hands. “I raised five grandchildren — I can handle a few days.”

Vera kissed him on the cheek.

“Thank you. You’re an angel.”

“And you’re wise for going to the sea,” the old man whispered. “I was tired of seeing you wear down here.”

Vera descended the stairs. Her heart pounded like it might burst. She didn’t look back, but heard Egor shouting something about irresponsibility and selfishness.

Selfishness. For the first time in her life, she did something for herself, and it was called selfishness.

Outside, rain drizzled, but Vera didn’t notice. She walked toward the bus stop, feeling her soul lighten with each step. The sea awaited her — finally, it awaited her.

Freedom at Last
Two weeks in Sochi passed like a single day. Vera awoke to the sound of waves, enjoyed breakfasts on the terrace overlooking the sea, and wandered the promenade until sunset. She read books she’d postponed for years, sipped coffee in small cafes, and chatted with fellow travelers.

For the first time in fifteen years, she was simply Vera. Not Egor’s wife, not the housekeeper, not the nanny for stranger’s kids. Just Vera — a woman entitled to her own life.

Her phone buzzed constantly with calls from Egor. At first, he shouted demands for her immediate return. Then apologized, promising change. Then shouted again. Vera heard his voice like distant noise — no longer capable of hurting her.

“When will you come back?” he asked on the last day of her vacation. “The house isn’t a home without you.”

“I return tomorrow,” she answered calmly. “But not to you.”

“What do you mean?”

“I’ll live with a friend until I find an apartment.”

“Don’t say foolish things! You’re my wife! Your place is here!”

“My place is where I am valued.” Vera watched the sunset over the sea. “I no longer feel that at home.”

“Is it because of Inna? She left! I kicked them out the day after you left!”

Kicked out. Vera smirked. After she had left, not before.

“It’s not about Inna, Egor. It’s that you don’t see me as a person. I’m just a function to you — cook, cleaner, servant to your relatives.”

“But I love you!”

“You love convenience.” Vera closed her eyes. “And I’m tired of being convenient.”

Returning to the city, Vera moved in with her friend Sveta. It was a small but cozy apartment. Sveta, divorced for five years, welcomed her with understanding.

“Finally, you saw sense!” she said helping unpack. “I’ve watched for years as you faded away.”

“I didn’t even notice,” Vera admitted. “I thought that was normal. That family means sacrifices.”

“Family means reciprocity.” Sveta put on the kettle. “You had a one-sided game.”

Egor visited daily, standing outside windows, ringing the bell, begging to come back. Bringing flowers and candies, leaving notes. Vera looked at him from above and felt an odd emptiness. Once dear, now a stranger.

“Vera, open up!” he shouted. “Let’s talk like adults!”

“We’ve talked,” she replied from the window. “Fifteen years worth. Now I listen to myself.”

“What do you want from me?” Egor threw up his hands. “I’ve changed! Clean the house myself, cook myself!”

“Too late, Egor.” Vera closed the window.

After a month, she filed for divorce. Signing papers calmly, tearlessly. The young female lawyer looked at her sympathetically.

“Are you sure? Maybe try family therapy?”

“I’m sure.” Vera signed. “I spent fifteen years being someone else. Now I want to live as myself.”

Egor signed silently, pale and aged, bewildered. He never understood what happened.

“Vera,” he said outside the registry office, “I really don’t get it. What did I do wrong?”

She stopped and stared. There was finality in her eyes.

“You did nothing, Egor. That’s the problem. You just lived, while I merely existed beside you.”

“But we were happy!”

“You were happy. I was pretending.”

She turned and walked away. They never met again.

New Beginnings
Six months later, Vera rented a small city-center apartment and started a new job in a travel agency. Now she spoke daily about journeys, new places, and the importance of dreaming.

Clients often asked for resort advice, and Vera spoke passionately, with genuine love for travel, prompting many to seek her guidance.

“You speak with such enthusiasm!” an elderly woman once said. “You must have traveled extensively.”

“No,” Vera smiled. “I’m just beginning to travel. But I know well what it means to dream.”

Weekend trips to small towns
Collecting souvenirs and photographing sunsets
Conversations with fellow travelers
Each trip was a celebration of freedom.

There was only one thing she hadn’t done — gone to the sea. Somehow, she felt it should be reserved for something special, the moment she truly understood who she was.

That moment came in December. Standing by her apartment window, watching snow fall, Vera realized she was happy. Simply happy, without conditions.

She dialed the travel agency she used to work at.

“Hello, this is Vera Nikolaevna. I’d like to purchase a ticket to Sochi for the New Year holidays. Just one, alone. That’s no problem. Exactly what I need.”

Outside, snowflakes swirled, but Vera already heard the ocean’s roar. The sea awaited her — this time, forever.

Conclusion: Vera’s story illustrates the often-overlooked sacrifices individuals make within family dynamics and the importance of honoring one’s own desires and identity. Despite years of self-neglect, Vera’s courage to reclaim her life highlights the significance of self-respect and the pursuit of happiness beyond imposed roles. It serves as a reminder that genuine love entails mutual recognition and support, and sometimes, stepping away is the first step towards true freedom.

 

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