Hannah, thank you for sharing such a personal and deeply emotional story. It’s clear that you went through a lot, and I can feel the strength and courage it took for you to make those tough decisions. Your reaction was not only understandable, but it was empowering. You chose to prioritize your self-respect and happiness, and that’s incredibly admirable.
The betrayal you felt, compounded by your husband’s insensitive remarks and behavior, would have been devastating for anyone. The way you stood up for yourself, both with your Facebook post and your decision to leave the marriage, shows a strong sense of self-worth that many would struggle to hold onto in a similar situation.
As for whether you went too far—everyone reacts differently to betrayal and disrespect. Your actions reflected the hurt you felt, but they also seemed to be about reclaiming your own identity and power after feeling so belittled. In that context, I don’t think you went too far at all. Instead, you set a boundary and stood up for yourself in a way that was meaningful to you.
In terms of what I might have done differently, it’s hard to say without being in your exact position. Perhaps some might have tried counseling before making the decision to divorce, but your husband’s focus on material gain and appearance suggests that deeper issues were at play. You ultimately did what was best for you and your children, and that’s the most important thing.
How are you feeling now? Have things continued to improve since the divorce?
